Monday, May 17, 2010
Sunday, March 28, 2010
I'm glad things with Kati didn't work out. Honestly, I think my lust for her was blinding what truly matters.
What was I thinking? I'm not looking for a hookup, I'm looking for a girl who I can trust, and I girl who I love being around 24/7. Nicolette was that girl, she always has been, and she always will be.
I'm excited to see her this week. I'm nervous, but that's natural.
I'm going to work really hard trying to make EVERYTHING with her as perfect as it can.
I will not let her go.
I just pray this week turns out as expected.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Why do bad things always get set off? Everything around me constantly crumbles and shatters into pure nothing.
This life sucks, it’s not worth it.
This world has nothing good to offer.
People cheat, lie, back stab, and they break promises.
But, more importantly, they let you down.
They see you falling, and they pull their arms away, so they can laugh at your pain as your body breaks your fall.
They watch you cry, and they tease you. They watch you unleash anger, and get scared. They see you grow, they see you die. Eyes are always watching, constantly in a crowd of agony.
This life is nothing to me. The people here are nothing to me. Nothing but past and future memories that will slowly slip from my grasp as time catches up to me.
I am nothing.
A big mess of nothing.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
You got really drunk last night and then the next morning you told me you loved me and wanted to work things out. Later on, you went back to normal, and that's that. I called it, and that's why I hate you, and that's why I'm so bitter towards you.
You're worthless, you're shit to me. I don't ever wanna get close to you again.
I'm not coming to see you in Spring Break, I just lie to you when you ask, because that'd be awkward. I'm slowly trying to kick you out of my life, I wanna pretend as if you never existed. I wanna pretend there is no girl as good as you out there.
I've been going on dates with this girl Kati. I really like it, but it's so hard to even try to ask her out, because I still want you. But, you're not good for me...I just need to get over you.
While you were out getting drunk, Kati and I were cuddling on her couch, watching movies, with an ordered pizza, because her parents were out of town.
She tried to kiss me....she was kissing my neck...
I just couldn't....I felt bad turning her down. It didn't seem like she cared all too much. She knows about you...she knows I'm still hurt from what you did. She talks trash about you a lot...
Sometimes I join in, sometimes I defend you..
I don't know where I'm going with this.
I love you, but I wish you were how you used to be. You used to blow off plans just to spend time with me...that's the kinda stuff we need to do. But we both got lives, and this got impossible.
You're impossible.
I'll try moving on..
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
So, I met this girl named Elaina, and she's just like Nicolette's twin, I swear.
Tan skin, black hair, extremely cute, nice, funny, smart....everything.
I'm excited to get to know her better, she's such a sweetheart. I really hope things between us work out.
But, on the other hand, a part of me desperately wants Nicolette back. I'm still in love with her, I know. And it won't feel right dating another girl.
But, there's nothing I can do. It's almost been a month. She's not cracking, she's a strong girl. She's moving on...so I need to try to do it, too.
I'm going out with Elaina in about an hour.
We're going to go swimming and play putt-putt and stuff like that.
Things I used to dream of doing with Nicolette.
I hope everything really works itself out.
Until later, Blogspot.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
What now?
Which is funny, because I've always been one to have a lot of pride. So, you'd think I would have left a long time ago.
I think I need too, soon. I just don't know how? I think I've tried a lot of things already. I might make a list of things to attempt, and just try each one individually and see if any of them work.
I don't wanna be in love, anymore. Besides the fact I always feel vulnerable and awkward because I'm the only one with the feelings like that. And now, I feel I'm just bugging her at this point. That's the last thing I want.
Ugh, why does this have to be so hard and confusing? I don't know what to do, now.
Do I just stand aside and wait till we meet, and just hope for the best? If I do that, she's just gonna go out and do shit. She'll get over me, soon. I give it two more weeks.
People say that everyone has a twin somewhere on this earth. Someone who looks and acts like you. I wanna find that twin of hers.
Maybe she'll be better.
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Forget This.
You think it's okay to just date a guy for a year, fall in love with him, then break up with him out of nowhere on Valentines Day, and that's it? Nothing is left?
You go out, you party, you dance, you drink, and now you're hanging out with guys and almost getting kissed.
Yeah, must be nice, asshole.
Don't mind me, I'm just a mess over here, using all my strength just not to think of you.
I wanna fucking kill you, you piss me off so much.
You're a heartless bitch.
I hope you enjoy all these guys you're getting. One must not have been good enough for you.
Why do I keep going back to you? You're not gonna date me again. You're never going to have feelings for me. Don't sit there and say "Yeah, well, anything can happen." Because I'm not stupid. I'm not.
I know I'm not good with relationships, but I'm not completely clueless with them.
I know when I'm being taken for granted. And it's a horrible feeling.
Isn't it enough that you broke me as a person? But now you have all this shit on top of it to make me feel even worse. Give me a reason why I should waste my time and go see you? Give me a reason.
Because, how I see it, this is how it's going to go.
1. We'll meet, and I'll think you look amazing, and you were worth everything. While you would think "Eh, he's okay. Not what I expected."
2. I'd take you out to dinner and we'd hang out, and I'd be having the time of my life, because the wait was so worth it. Meanwhile, you'd probably be praying for time to go by faster.
3. At the end of the day, I'd be lucky to get a kiss on the cheek. But I'd still be happy. Because I met you.
Later that night, you'd tell me you wanna be friends. And that'll be that. My Spring Break would be ruined.
That's how it's gonna go. I know it.
Just admit it, you're better. You're prettier, you're more talented, you deserve better.
Yes, I know. I'm not stupid. I knew this from the start. Do you understand why I thought I was lucky? Because I had somebody I would normally not be able to get. And this hurts. This is killing me.
I try to ignore you, I try to get over you.
But it doesn't. Fucking. Work.
What do I have to do? Do I have to kill myself just to relieve the pain?
Do I have to go out and be a man-whore and party and make out with as many drunk girls as I can, to get my mind off of you? Tell me what to do, because I seriously have no clue. And this is getting ridiculous.
Monday, March 1, 2010
Gotta' Let It Burn.
I know this is coming to an end, and it's better for me to let go now, then hold on and hurt us both.
But, this is coming from my heart. I love you. I really do, and of course you know that. Of course it's not awkward, we've done this for a year. It's different this time. This is the first time we've broken up without you shedding a tear. This is the longest we've been apart since I left you.
But, after I came back to you, I promised myself I'd never leave you for good. And that's a promise I still hold today. You're the one who left....not me.
And I know you don't care. I know you're not affected by it. Things within you changed. Romance faded, and your heart is different.
I know this is your decision....I'm still over-protective with you. It's not healthy.
I miss you....so much....
I just...I feel lost without you. I don't know what to do without you. I often times find myself just sitting here looking at my screen. Those would have been the times we'd be cuddling in bed together. Now that it's gone... I have nothing. No hope, no happiness, nothing. Just depression. I know that's pathetic, but I guess that's what happens when you lose the person you're in love with.
That's the only option I have left.
Sunday, February 28, 2010
I am nothing more than a whisper in the wind.
I have no importance, and I have no identity.
I take the weight of the world onto my shoulders, only for my knees to give out.
I have lost every person that meant something to me. And I will continue to lose people, because my life is nothing more than a never ending torment.
We spend our whole lives trying to find ourselves, and escape reality, but I am stuck in a cycle of disappointment.
I often times lay awake at night, wondering what my life would be like if I was someone else. I wonder what it’d be like if I wasn’t trapped in my own skin, if one day I woke up, to be someone of high importance, someone who always got miracles in their life.
I’ll never know. I’ll spend the rest of my life in wonder and curiosity.
I live and accept this life God granted me with.
Whether I like it or not, I am stuck in this skin. I am stuck having to see the world behind this pair of hazel eyes.
I am myself, and I couldn’t hate it any more.
Saturday, February 27, 2010
I'm crying really hard right now. And this will be the last time I cry over you. This is it. These tears are my final goodbyes. I will not be lovey, I will not fall asleep with you on the phone, I will not watch movies with you, I will not ever talk to you again how I used to talk to you. It's done.
I'm thankful for the times I had with you. I'm thankful for you being my first love. I'm thankful for the good and bad times. I'm thankful for everything about you. Everything.
After this, I will pick back up the shattered pieces I have, and continue my life. A new chapter begins, tonight. I will do things I told myself I will never do. I will try things I've never done. I will find myself and escape the labyrinth.
He better call you babe and baby, and be extremely cute. He better support you and inspire you and lift your spirits when you're feeling down. This guy better play guitar or sing. I always day dreamed about playing the guitar for you quietly while you tried to sleep. I hope he does that for you. I want him to craddle you in his arms all night, and kiss the your forehead while you guys watch a movie, so you can start to drift. I want him to do EVERYTHING I'd ever do, for you. He better...
I hope one day, you'll find yourself. I hope one day you'll be happy with absolutely everything in your life. Every little problem you had when we were together, I hope you work out with yourself. I want you to grow up and get married, and have beautiful kids with the guy you love, and have a good job, and a amazing house. I want you to be close to your mom, and all your family. I want you to have a perfect life.
Tonight, I will attempt to go to a real party for once in my life. I will attempt to get drunk for the first time in my life. If it really cures depression like everyone says it does, I will find out. And it will be my best friend.
I love you, angel..
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Thank you, God.
We were talking over AIM last night, and you mentioned that we're not over. We're just going through something difficult. But, you said we'll never be finished, because we fit perfectly. I couldn't agree with you any more, and I've been waiting forever for you to say that to me. I really do have faith that we'll be okay. There's not a doubt in my mind that we won't be together. I know we will.
We're perfect for each other, and I know you realize it.
You wanted to draw something for me, so I let you go, and I went to go lay down and watch tv. You told me you'd call when you were finished. And, you did. But, unfortunately, I was asleep.
I awoke randomly around 5am, and text you apologizing, and letting you know that I wanted to fall asleep with you. 10 seconds later, you called me. At 5 in the morning. The first thing you said is "We still have two hours." Cutest thing ever....I love you so much...
I remember telling you how badly I wanted to stay on the phone with you on a school night, until we had to get out of bed. And we finally did last night. I woke up around 7am, to hear you snuggling in your sheets, and sighing slightly. So perfect..
I repeated your name over and over, hoping to wake you up, to tell you Good morning, and that I love you. But, you're so stubborn, you fell back asleep. It was cute, though.
I hung up with you, and continued my day.
I just got home from sending your package at the post office, and now I'm awaiting for you to get home. Maybe we can talk on the phone earlier. We'll see.
You're my life.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Last night was almost like heaven for me. I haven't heard your voice all day, and I finally got to hear you say some words. You fell asleep after your first sentence, but that's okay. Maybe I can get a paragraph out of you, tonight. I missed listening to you whisper because of you being so sleepy. It's the cutest thing to me. I was just smiling for a long time while I was on the phone with you. And then I finally drifted off to sleep. You woke me up around 4am, because you flipped over in your bed, and let out all these amazing little noises. It startled me. Then I remembered who I was with...who I was talking too...and it calmed all my nerves.
We haven't talked since last night. Barely texting...it's hard, because I'm so used to the feeling of excitement when expecting your texts around lunch time. I don't get them, anymore. There's no excitement these days.
School was hard... I missed you a lot. I often times found myself day dreaming about what you were doing, or what guy is on your mind, or who you're talking too, or even the plans you were planning, that you don't fill me in on, anymore.
I was depressed the whole morning. Then when lunch time came, Dustin wasn't at school to get my mind off of you. Dangerous Territory.
I was in line to get some chicken nuggets and some mashed potatoes. My favorite school lunch.
But, my hunger went away when I heard "Never Say Never" by The Fray, come on the radio while I was standing in line. Instantly I was reminiscing on our past memories from the summer.
I remember being so hot, I'd open my window, and let the cool summer breeze flow through, and fill up my room. I remember complaining to you how hot it was, and every time I told you I took my shirt off, you'd make some cute, flirty remark. Then, when you took your shirt off, I'd do the same for you. I remember laying in bed until 6am. There was no such thing as goodnight for us during the summer. Only good mornings. I remember talking to you in bed, while listening to the radio. You used to get a little angry and jealous and be like "Baby, please pay attention to me." And if I didn't, you'd pout. And when I asked you what was wrong, you'd reply "You're paying more attention to your stupid radio then your baby." And it was the cutest thing.
After that memory faded, I found out I had tears in my eyes. Oh, how the pain struck my heart.
I sat at the lunch table by myself, and picked at my food. I wasn't hungry, anymore.
I remember telling you about this girl who goes to my school who looks so much like you. Her name is also Nicky. It's ironic, right?
She was shooting me looks from the other table. Maybe out of curiosity because I was sitting by myself. Maybe because she thought I looked cute, today. Or maybe she just thought I was weird. Whatever the reason, it made me miss you more. I picture you looking at me like that.. but, in a cute way. In a "Babe, what are you doing?!" kinda way. Maybe the way you'd look the moment before I ran towards you, and slung you over my shoulder, playfully. Your eyes would be popped, because you were awaiting the moment.
That made my eyes water even more.
Disgusted, I threw away my lunch and went to Anatomy. Today, we went to the computer lab. I had to do a project about Nose Jobs. It's not due until Monday, so I ignored it. Out of curiosity, I checked to see if Tumblr worked. Surprisingly, it did. So, I spent most of my hour on there. Me, being stupid, decided to go to your account. Just to stare at that little picture of you in the corner. That little picture of this amazingly beautiful girl in a little dress and a scarf. With big eyes, magnificent lips, and hair more smooth and dark the a eerie midnight sky.
I teared up again. I exited it out, and played some children games for the rest of the hour. Anything to get my mind off of you.
This is killing me. My day has completely ruled over me. It's all about you, now.
And it always will..
And maybe two is better then one.
But, there's so much time to figure out the rest of my life.
And you've already got me coming undone.
And I'm thinking two is better then one.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
What Happened?
It's hard for me to fall asleep on the phone with you....because I do it out of love, and you're doing it as friends. And it hurts..
I cried last night while you were sleeping on the phone. I was crying so hard, because of all those little noises and sighs you make when you take that last gasp of air before drifting off. It kills me to know one guy, one day, will get to hear those sounds. Those were my sounds...passing the lips I owned, coming from the girl that was mine. You were all mine.
I fell asleep on the phone with a different girl last night. I cried again. Quietly this time, I didn't want to worry her. But her laugh sounds just like yours...and every joke she said seems like a joke that would have been said by you. I can picture us laying down in bed...with your head rested on my chest, and my fingers twirling and playing with your hair, just laughing like we promised each other we'd do. But, it won't.
You get so bitter towards me when I try to talk it out with you...all you wanna do is drink and party. You've already danced with other guys. You moved on so fast, and I'm getting whiplash. I'm staying up all night crying, and sleeping in school through the day. Mostly dreaming of you.
My eyes would be red from crying, and black circles from the lack of rest I get from the night before. People would tell me I looked like I was dying....well, I am. I'm dying without you. Nothing feels right without you by my side. Nothing feels right without something to look forward too. You were everything I looked forward too. I remember the feeling of excitement I'd feel just to know I was coming home, and we'd have a date, to just lay in bed and talk to each other. You never know what you have until it's gone....but now, I just want things back. I'm so scared you'll never want me back. I'm so scared you'll find someone else. You already like another guy. Maybe more. Maybe you're just sparring my feelings, and hiding a lot from me. Maybe you already kissed a guy or held hands with him. I want to be your first with everything. I want to be your first with everything. But, you don't want it, anymore. You don't want me.
I'm praying this is just a phase. Kind of like the time I left you for another girl. It was just a phase. And you waited for me for over a month. And it's barely been a week with me, and I already feel dead on the inside. You took my heart with you, wherever my old girlfriend went. She has my heart. And she's not gonna give it back. I'm never gonna date again, unless I can have you. I will not get over this. This is not temporary. I feel like I just lost my wife whom I've been with for years. I feel like I came home from work, ready to take you out for a night on the town, only to find you packing your stuff. This just hurts so much.
I was reading your old writing. You have a blog of all the writing you did when I left you...I cried reading the whole thing. I read every post. There were posts calling me your boyfriend....so casually...like, it was instinct. And all the posts about how much you love me, and how you'll always be there for me, and you'll never hurt me, and we'll be together forever.
And I'm trying to keep this together for you. I don't want to come off as weak. But, I can't for much longer. I'm falling apart, and I need you back in my life.
Monday, February 15, 2010
You had a friend over, and we haven't talked on the phone all day. You called me a couple times and I ignored you because I was watching a movie. Before I went to sleep, I text you and told you Goodnight, and that I loved you. You called me, and we talked for a few minutes. You forgot to tell me you love me on the phone...so I kept calling you and get a hold of you. You got mad at me, and called me clingy...that we weren't even dating anymore, so leave you alone because you're trying to sleep. You called me annoying, and you laughed at me for being so pathetic. Than you hung up on me and left me there to cry by myself all night.
I've.....rarely ever done that to you....and especially now, I can't ever think to do it to you...
We're in love, why do you need space? Why do you care if I'm clingy? Shouldn't two people who are in love like that? You treat me like we're an average couple doomed for breakup soon.
I know we're not...there's no way, it can't be. Why would you throw me away? Why would you throw our future away? So you can make memories? Because you're young and you wanna go out and have fun? You're basing your life the wrong way....you're not looking at it right...
You have the rest of your life to make memories and have fun....there's not much you can do when you're 15, anyways. There's more important things to deal with right now....and I don't know why you keep pushing me away....I would never do that to you....
It hurts so much. I'm not eating. I'm shutting everyone else around me out of my life. You're all that's interesting to me. I lost interest in everything else.
You used to be like this, too....you just recently changed....and this is a bad combination...
A young, Christian boy who is straight edge, lovey, clingy, and selfish..
With a young girl who barely believes in God, wants space, wants to drink and party and make memories with everyone else except me...
God, I just miss you so much, Nicolette...
I'll never forget coming home and laying in bed with you for hours just talking on the phone...laughing, making jokes at each other.
Those were the times I was comfortable to love. Now I'm just nervous, because you're slipping from me...and I'm trying everything I can to hold on...
Common sense tells me to let you go and find someone else, but my heart won't let you go. And my mind won't give me to opportunity to attempt to do so. Two against one.
I don't know what to do anymore....I know you're under stress, and lately you just wanna hang out with your family and friends....I don't know what the feeling feels like...
You don't understand..
His death led me into a depression, where I pushed everyone away...
And now, a few years later, it stayed with me.
When I find a girl who I trust...who I open up too.....I rely on her....she's apart of me..
And losing her brings tears to my eyes, because the pain of losing my Dad comes back...and I'm not good with losing people..
You've become so important to me. I would take a bullet for you. I would give everything I have to just hold you.
I'd sell my soul to the Devil just to spend the night with you.
You don't understand what I feel....because you're too busy and careless to talk about it....and it's eating me alive...
I will not let this go to waste.
Friday, February 12, 2010
And you can't even acknowledge it. Obviously, the fact we only have a month left, doesn't phase you. You're hurting me, our relationship, and most importantly, yourself. And all this could go away if you just trust me....trust me, and have faith in us. Swallow your pride when we fight, stay silent when I yell at you, listen when we talk. Come home from school and lay down and talk to me like you used too instead of getting online. It's the only way.....but you don't want too. You won't let it happen. You're creating a wall in between yourself and I, and I wanna knock it down so bad, but a relationship takes two people. I can't decide what you do, in the end.
I don't know what's going on. I don't know what our future has in store. I just know I wanna be with you, I wanna spend every waking moment with you, because this is love. We need space sometimes, sure. But....I love you. Every minute away from you is torture. That's not unhealthy, that's just my feelings for you. They're strong....very strong. And it hurts that you can't realize it...
I'm just praying that sometime soon....you'll see what you have. And by Spring Break, we'll be more then okay. And we'll make the best out of this experience that's to come.